Self Quest: Does standing out feel uncomfortable?

Have you ever noticed how easy it is to shrink just a little?

To quiet your voice, soften your light, or second-guess yoursel.

I've definitely been there. 

For many of us, being seen feels vulnerable. We’re wired for pleasing, for belonging, for not ruffling the feathers. 

And we're scared of being judged, misunderstood, or simply being too much.

So we blend.

We shape-shift.

We dim.

But here’s the thing:
The life that feels truly good—the one that’s aligned, joyful, and fun—can’t be built if you are hiding.

I know that it takes courage to stand out, to speak with confidence, to lead from a place of true authenticity.

It's not easy – especially if you've been criticized in the past. 

BUT, allowing yourself to stand out –not in an obnoxious way– but in a way that honors yourself and that highlights who you are is a key piece in creating a beautiful life.

That's why today's question is: 

So here’s your invitation today:
Notice where you're holding back.
 

And ask yourself—what would it feel like to be seen… not for who you think you should be, but for who you really are?

All you have to do is to show up authentically.

You can take this week's question and simply reflect on it on your own, you can use it as a journal prompt (very powerful ✍️), or you can go on a walk with friends and discuss it in a group (builds connection 👯‍♀️).

With love as always, 

Caroline